The Breakup Coach

December 31, 2009 / 1 COMMENT

Out With the Old, In With the New

As 2009 comes to a close and we bid it farewell, I wonder what else we can say goodbye to?

How about lingering ex's? (Just thought of a new term for them: helicopter ex's)

Answering 3 a.m. booty calls and hoping that they mean anything beyond the fact that someone wants some booty.

Killing off a bottle of wine or gallon of ice cream (or both) because you-know-who didn't call.

Directing anger and hostility toward "other women" (it's really not about them, is it?)

Letting what someone else does or says (or doesn't do or say) dictate how you feel about yourself.

Staying in a relationship that doesn't work for you anymore just to protect someone's feelings, or because you're afraid of being alone.

What are you willing to let go of along with 2009?  What do you want more of in 2010, and what are you willing to do in order to get it?

Happy New Year,

The BreakUp Coach

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Bumpkin on a Swing - March 4, 2010 2:53 pm

I think we have all been in this situation a dozen times at least, nice to know the official rules.

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